My mother, Holly Haliburton, was a big part of my store. Long-time customers will remember her because she worked in my store for 30 years. Until five years ago, when macular degeneration robbed her of her eyesight. She did spend a day at the store last summer, when she went outside and sat in a chair in the sun, talking to everyone she knew who passed by.
My mother recently died at the age of 95. There is a photo of her that I keep in my store, showing Holly as a young mother and myself at about two years old. Lately, friends and customers have been bringing me flowers, which I put beside the photo.
Here is the obituary for Holly:
Holly Margaret Haliburton
Dec. 13, 1917 to Feb. 17, 2013
We are saddened to announce the passing of our dear mother at the age of 95. She was predeceased by her loving husband of 53 years, Jack Haliburton, who died in 1998, her parents, James Nichol and Sarah (Bertha) Hamilton, and 11 of 13 siblings. She is survived by her brother Bill Nichol and his wife Joyce of New Brunswick; her daughter Jackie (Neal), her son Jim, and her adult grandchildren Eli (Negar), Rachael, Becky and Jeremy.
Holly was born in Black Lands, New Brunswick. She skipped three grades in school and was a teacher by the time she was 15 at a one-room schoolhouse. During the war, she worked as a civilian for the military in Moncton, where she met Jack at a dance, a young Toronto-born officer who was teaching young pilots how to fly. They married in 1945, six weeks after they met, and after the war moved west, first to Calgary, where Jack started his own real estate firm, Campbell & Haliburton, and founded the Alberta real estate board. After the birth of their two children, Jackie & Jim Haliburton, they moved to Edmonton for five years and then to the Glenmore area of West Vancouver, where Jack built many homes and started a mergers and acquisitions business.
During the 1950s, Holly could be seen driving the kids to soccer and band practice in her pink 1957 Chev convertible, with the radio turned up too loud, embarrassing her children. After Jackie graduated from school in 1965, she attended Chouinard Art Institute in Los Angeles, and the family soon followed, settling in Encino, where they were next-door neighbours to Michael Jackson and his family during the Jackson 5 heyday.
Holly loved entertaining in those days, when hundreds of neighbours would flock to her Christmas parties, where she would hand out a gingerbread likeness to each guest. She loved and embraced people, without judgment, and was always a positive person right to the end.
Jack & Holly returned to West Vancouver in the early ’80s, when Holly began working in Jackie’s store, Angel, at the age of 60. She worked at the store for 30 years and became a part of the lives of Angel customers, who treated Holly like a surrogate mother. She called everyone “Dear.”
She lived life to the fullest and had no regrets. Her positive attitude was an inspiration to many who knew her, especially Laurie Haliburton of North Vancouver, Ann Danton of England, who was like a daughter to Holly, Dr. Rob Scott of West Van, Lynn Thomas, and Joe Diblasi, both of California.
Holly spent the last two weeks of her life in the Heart Centre at St. Paul’s hospital after a major heart attack, with her family and friends by her side, including Ingrid, Linda, Wayne, Ruby, Regina and Barb. Special thanks to Linda & Ingrid for their many hours at the hospital. She put up a valiant fight to live, cracking jokes days before she died, but her time eventually ran out. She died in her sleep in hospital, with Jackie at her side and Jim on the phone. The family would like to thank all the doctors and nurses at St. Paul’s for the great care they gave Holly in her final days. Holly is greatly missed by all who knew her.
For the date and location of the celebration of Holly’s life in April, email email@example.com
Click here to see The Vancouver Sun story detailing what happened to my mother after she died.
I remember your mother from my visits to the store. I didn’t realize five years had passed since she was last there regularly. My condolences on your loss.
Sending deepest sympathy to your family with the loss of your Mom. I never knew her, but I am your Uncle Bill’s sister-in-law, and had heard “Holly’s name” many, many times over the years. What a lovely picture of her, very beautiful woman. It is so sad knowing that Billy is the last of that wonderful Nichol family. “To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die” by Thomas Campbell. May this be so.
Jean (Hamilton) Stewart
Thanks, Jean. We have also been thinking a lot lately of your family and the tragedies that the family has had to endure recently. Wishing you all well.
My heartfelt condolences on the loss of your mum. What a bright spirit she obviously was – It’s easy to see that you take after her. I did read the article, and was appalled by what happened. Let us hope some good comes from it. (I lost my own mum at Christmas and we were fortunate to have had the opposite experience with the funeral company – couldn’t have been more considerate.)
Dear Jackie, so sad to hear of your loss. Holly had a wonderful sense of the joy and purpose in life that she imparted to everyone she met. We feel privileged to have known her – and her daughter. Much love.
Thanks so much Ray & Shirley. Hope you are both well….Jackie.